parenting Category

Saturday, June 13th, 2009

creative play

Children will entertain themselves with whatever is available for play. Encourage these early espressions of ingenuity and creativity. Once, I remember, I felt overwhelmed with our room filled with the kids’ toys. So I cleaned up the room and put all the toys outside. The moment kids come into the room, they’d start looking for some things to play with! Since there wasn’t any toys available, they looked for some thing else to play with. Our things! Just about anything they could find… clothes, pillows, blankets, etc! I put the toys back there.

by: janet

Friday, June 12th, 2009

nip a bud

when bringing a new baby home, prepare small gifts for the sibling/s. presents will be flowing freely for the new addition, and this will keep others from being left out. i tried this for my so when my newborn daughter came. i knew then that he felt so loved and cared for even we had a new baby at home.

Thursday, June 11th, 2009

how to encourage children’s creativity

encourage creativity by exposing your children to music, dance, the arts, and other activities that help themto develop their imaginations. specific activities include:

  • playgroup – the best exposure for toddlers/kids is by joining playgroups
  • piano or music lessons – can start a 4-year old child for music lessons with a group. this may be a bit expensive but it’s worth the investment because music enhances logic.
  • art class
  • dance class
  • sunday school class – exposes children to other kids, listens to stories which triggers imagination and get to know God above all else.
Wednesday, June 10th, 2009

Importance of Family Activities

As a family, it is important to go for a break or getaway from time to time. It fosters bonding between members of the family. Fathers could be busy because of the nature of their jobs and gets few or no time alone for the family. Mothers could get very busy keeping the household together and yet not enough time to spend with kids and husbands. Children could get very busy playing or studying or by being with peers they spent less and less time with the parents. The very obvious solution is for each member of the family to pause in whatever they’re doing and go for a vacation just with family alone. How do we set family time and how often?

  • once a day – set aside one hour a day to talk. It could be around the table for a meal. Talk about the experiences you have had for that day.
  • once a week – set aside one day a week to be with the family. Usually, Sunday is the best time to do so. You may go to church for worship or go to a park, or go to a cinema. The possibilities are endless. We just started going to the cinema as a family. My boy is already almost 4 years old and my girl is almost 2 years old. Glad both of them did very well inside the cinema. We watched Wall-E. The first ever movie we watched in the cinema as a family
  • once a month – stay overnight somewhere else.
  • once a year – go for a 3-5 day vacation. There are a lot of holiday destinations available and you can check them online. Cheaperthanhotels.com offers a last minute accommodation deals for the family. The offers could come with free breakfast, free usage of facilities or even free access to the internet. They have hotels all over Europe.

One of the best memories we have as a family is when we go for a break. We could do things together without interruptions. We could discover new things together. And the best of all, we could create a more special bond as a family.

by: janet

Tuesday, June 9th, 2009

be a letter writer

be a letter writer and encourage your children to write them, as well. letters are a wonderful way to communicate and appreciated gesture. they also make a great keepsakes. I created two separate blogs for my two kids (one for each). there, i write my thoughts about them on that period of time. that way when they group up, they will be able to read and know the love i have for them even when they were still young. i think it would make a difference to them, boosting their self esteem and a sense of well-being. there’s nothing like feeling loved by the closest people you have in your life.

Tuesday, June 9th, 2009

Breastfeeding Journey

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I’m a strong advocate of breastfeeding. Breastmilk is the best milk of all times. It benefits both the mother and baby. For baby, it gives her the total nutrition for the 1st 6 months of her life. According to survey, breastfed babies tend to have higher IQ’s compared to formula fed babies. They tend to be stronger and healthier. The longer you breastfeed, the better. For mothers, it can reduce postpartum bleeeding, reduce the risk of ovarian and breast cancer and can actually help in going back to prepegnancy weight fast.

I breastfed my first child, Schenker, for 16 months. I am glad I did. I’m happy that I gave him the best start of his life. He might be a picky eater now, but he’s healthy and smart. Although it took me a while to regain my prepegnancy weight because I gained more than I was supposed to gain. It was my fault. But with my second, a few months of breastfeeding and I was back to my prepregnancy weight.

Here’s my BF journey with my little girl, Samantha:

When Samantha was just born, I asked my Ob/Gynae if I could breastfeed Samantha first before taking her to the nursery. She said yes. So I did. She gave Samantha to me and I started taking her mouth to latch on. She finally did after a few tries. It was wonderful… It was like an instinct for her to latch on and suck. I didn’t have milk coming in (or out?)yet but she did suck.
3rd day – the milk finally came in. we were at home then. it was so difficult to get up and take her to feed coz my stitches were really painful everytime I moved. and how painful it was for my milk “machine” too! it was really tempting to give formula coz it was really very painful and I didn’t have enough rest. but i tried resisting the urge coz I knew if i started giving formula, the milk production will decrease.

5th day – i almost wanna give up. after all the pain… tiredness… and sleepness nights… i just wanna abort the idea of breastfeeding samantha (exclusively)… But peter was very supportive (or pushy?) of breastfeeding. i told him actually that i wanna give up already… but he asked me to wait for at least one more week. and i said okay… why not… one more week wasn’t too long.

after a week- i felt comfortable feeding her already… no more pain… the milk was flowing to the max… sometimes Samantha would cry in frustration because she couldn’t keep up with the flow. she would unlatch and the milk would just spray like someone from inside was spraying the milk out! and i thought, i had breastfed my boy for 16 long months… why not for samantha? so i decided to keep going.

now – still happily breastfeeding (plus solids now). and planning to do as long as we both can do it!

way to go samantha! way to go… me! hehehe.

I am a strong advocate of breastfeeding. Everytime I know somebody’s getting pregnant or somebody’s gonna give birth, I talk to them about breastfeeding. It would be good to know that through breastfeeding, we let our children get the best start in life.

Tips for a Successful Breastfeeding

by: janet

Monday, June 8th, 2009

keep communication going

I used to have a long distance relationship (LDR) with my husband while we were still in the courtship stage. It was really hard to be in LDR. You have to keep the communication going. You have to keep the fire burning! My husband would take a two-day bus ride just to visit me. During those days, Air Asia (Malaysia’s Budget Airlines) wasn’t around yet.

Monday, June 8th, 2009

evening events

i can’t wait to do this with my family: choose at least one night out of the month

and make dinner something special.

i love doing fine dining.

and dressing up.

so it would be good to get out the good china and dress up a little bit.

i know that if we start this tradition, my kids would look forward to these refined evening events.

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